An El Gótico rooftop. Summer. Them.
Otro cafe doble. La cuenta, por favor. Olvidalo, mi amor.
I read “whatever we attend to will grow”. Then I wondered what parts of myself have I attended to? What parts are growing? And alternatively, what parts have I ignored or abandoned?
Since intimacy requires letting someone know me as I know myself to be, it means that I must have some degree of stable identity – a persona that remains fairly constant across changing circumstances.